Any good parent takes to please, within their abilities the wishes of their children, buy them gifts for Christmas, birthdays and other dates. Parents give something incomparably more brilliant valuable: His own being, the open book of his life and history, including the tears, the dreams made and also not met, leaving them to know the central place they occupy in this book their names are not footnotes or in a single chapter, but that cross and mark pattern in history. Talking about themselves is, in turn, educate our children's emotionality. Once a mother crying desperately asked me but what I have to do? How I can learn to be a mother? And simply said, you know kiss? You know to embrace? You know say I love you? ... Remember, no one psychologist technique will work if love does not work.